First off, there are three versions of the Secret by Rhonda Byrne:
- the book, The Secret.
- the audiobook, The Secret. This contains many different people’s voices, presumably from the movie version.
- the movie, The Secret DVD! Most of the reviews you’ve seen are about the movie.
I listened to the audiobook version.
I think how you are introduced to a book greatly influences how much you like it or at least how open you are to liking it. I first heard about The Secret from a group of friends who watched the movie together and they couldn’t say enough good about it. I was supposed to beg, steal or borrow a copy to watch! So I downloaded the audiobook version. I enjoyed it but if I hadn’t listened to The Attractor Factor first, I would have dismissed it all as hokey. The Secret introduces the law of attraction with a lot of hype and very big promises. They make it seem like it is possible to wish a bike or a winning lottery ticket into existence through sheer will power. Now while I believe that remaining positive and open will mean that many more opportunities will be available to you than if you are always negative, I don’t think you can wish tomorrow’s winning lottery ticket into your hand. So while the audiobook was uplifting and positive, it was a bit unrealistic. So, I wonder, if I’d read this negative review first, or if I hadn’t learned about the law of attraction from The Attractor Factor, I wonder if I would have liked The Secret at all? Would the negative review have set me up to think negatively about it, would I have concentrated on the hokiness and would I be writing a really negative review now? If so, it just goes to show you that thinking positive brings positive results (I enjoyed listening to the book) and thinking negative brings negative results (I might not have made it through the book!) On the influencing positively side, The Secret made the top ten list at Amazon.com and The New York Times. Does that make you want to read it now?